Don\u2019t tell your mother we were here. Always sit at the bar. Tables don\u2019t get drinks fast enough. Always tip fifty percent or more. The bartender will remember you. You\u2019ll never have to wait for a drink. Don\u2019t shout at the bartender, don\u2019t slap your money down unless you are very good friends with the bartender. Leave a good tip and you can do all of that. Have an easy order. Only domestic bottles or cans. Don\u2019t fuck with drafts or imports. Take a shot of whiskey if somebody else is paying. Don\u2019t rely on that, though. I didn\u2019t raise a moocher. Try a drink of this and grow some hair on your chest. Don\u2019t cough it up. Don\u2019t waste it. That\u2019s my hard-earned money right there. Have a water. Have an orange juice. Have a Shirley Temple. Have a virgin anything. Sit at the same seat every time. Get a picture of yourself on the wall. See that man smiling with ten empties in front of him? That used to be me. Raise a glass in my memory here when I\u2019m dead and buried. Never bring your girlfriend or wife here. This is a bad bar. This is a good bar. Come here when you\u2019re tired. Drag your lifeless body here after a long day of installing cable, after fixing other people\u2019s cars, after pouring concrete, after cutting grass for the city in one-hundred-degree heat, after cleaning toilets at the local high school. Keep Listerine and mint gum stocked in your car. Bring enough one-dollar bills for the jukebox. Know your audience. Play Willie. Play Hank Williams. Play Patsy Cline. Play Springsteen and hum along. Cry into your drink. Try to feel happy. Five drinks in and you will start to feel happy. Talk to the bartender. Try not to look at yourself in the mirror behind the bar. Drink until you can\u2019t feel the pain in your lower back. Drink until your cash is gone. Bring just enough cash so that you stay long enough, but not too long so people think you have a problem. Don\u2019t get kicked out. I love you. Want an orange juice? A cherry Coke? Have another sip of mine. I\u2019ll order another round. Don\u2019t get into barfights. Keep your head down. If you have to fight, fight, but don\u2019t use an empty bottle. That\u2019s attempted manslaughter. Fight dirty. Tip the bartender extra after a fight. Don\u2019t gamble on pool, or darts, or the game on TV. Don\u2019t drink the hard stuff too much. Come here after arguing with your wife. Learn how to use words that cut. This is how you hurt a woman you love without touching them. You will keep hurting them. Why? Because you\u2019re my son. Don\u2019t you fucking look at me like that. Have another sip. Grab some Listerine when we get to the car. Don\u2019t tell your mother we were here.<\/p>\n
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